And ... unfortunately ... in love relationships is the same.

We continue asking that and that and that ... and all becomes sort of a negotiation for a huge list of desires coming from both sides.

But my question is ... why?!

Most probably ... before entering into a love story ... we already have in mind all the details of a certain type of scenario.

... and also all the attributes which must define the partner.

So ... we enter into a story ... having all sorts of expectations ... illusory believing that all will happen ... exactly how we've dreamed.

And ... indeed ... the beauty of the beginning allows us to live with a huge hope into the soul.

... expecting as the love story itself ... to be the best experience we could have in this lifetime.

Unfortunately ... the passing of time proves to us ... that things are not happening as we've planned.

So ... we start complaining ... asking different things ... telling our perceptions ... and ... trying to negotiate so that the story should look like with what we've illusory thought it might be.

But ... all is useless.

.... really ... really useless.

Somehow we realise that we have totally different perceptions about that perfect love story ... and no matter what we just can't synchronise our thoughts.

We just ... can't ...

We realise ... and even accept ... that fantasy doesn't have to do anything with reality.

Our dreams ... our expectations ... simple can't become 100% real.

Some of them ... maybe yes ...

But ... many ... unfortunately... no matter how much we should negotiate... never become real.

And ... that is maybe the main reason why people fail in relationships.

We remain too much anchored in the world of fantasies ... totally forgetting that no one of us ... can't play this role of the perfect partner ... in continuous form.

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